Is a man who enjoys anal sex considered a sissy? For those w...

This is the seed of self-loathing.

Yeah, there are dipshits who believe that. There are people who believe all kinds of dingbatty things.

Is it about variety of sexual pleasure? Hell no. If you’re the one being penetrated, you’re no better than a woman. If you like being penetrated, you want to be no better than a woman.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Usually, those people have some deeply weird and kind of insecure ideas about sex. Most typical? Manly he-men of manly manliness penetrate their partners. Weak inferior feeeeeemales are penetrated. A man who gets penetrated is no better than a feeeeeemale.

For such people, everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. There is power, these people think, in who does the penetrating and who is penetrated.

So yeah, some people do indeed believe this, and those who believe it and also like anal end up twisted in some really unhealthy ways.

Why did the massacre of al-Dawayima Palestinian residents not have the same reverberations as the Deir Yasin massacre?

Is a man who enjoys anal sex considered a sissy? For those who think so, why can't they be thought of as someone who enjoys a variety of sexual pleasure?

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